Working as a dominatrix, or ‘mistress’, is a job that requires a very special set of skills and qualities. To be well-suited to work in this field, one needs to have plenty of self-confidence, creativity, and the ability to read people. On top of being required to possess these remarkable qualities, a dominatrix should also have an understanding of their own desires and a deep respect for the wishes and boundaries of their clients.
Starting with self-confidence, a dominatrix should be able to trust in their own knowledge and experiences. This way, they can be very comfortable not only commanding a scene, but adjusting it to best fit the needs and desires of their clients. It is also very important to have the ability to be firm and trust in the boundaries of the scene. At the same time, a degree of flexibility is essential–in order to make sure all players feel comfortable and safe in the dynamics.
Creativity is another essential quality for a dominatrix. No two scenes are ever the same, so it is key to be able to come up with new ideas and adjust as the scene unfolds. This creative ability also helps to keep the dominatrix sharp and engaged in every scene.
At the same time it is important to be able to read their clients. A dominatrix should pay close attention to the body language, facial expressions of those involved in the scene, and be able to detect when someone is uncomfortable or when the scene is going too far. This is especially important due to the fact that clients may not verbally express how they really feel.
On top of all other qualities, a dominatrix should also understand their own desires and know what they are and are not comfortable with. This ensures that the clients are not pushed into something they don’t want, as well as ensuring that the dominatrix never crosses their own boundaries.
In conclusion, it is obvious that a dominatrix is a complex profession that requires a blend of skills and qualities. To best fit these demanding requirements, it is necessary to have self-confidence, creativity, the ability to read people, and an understanding of one’s own desires. Working as a dominatrix is not a decision that should be taken lightly, but with the right know-how and personal qualities, it can be an incredibly fulfilling and engaging occupation. See original website.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to address this important topic of how to ensure that a femdom’s submissive remains obedient even when not in chastity.
Much like with any BDSM arrangement, the answer to this question will vary greatly depending on the individual relationship’s dynamics and needs of the two participants. That said, there are some general rules of thumb that will ensure both femdom enjoyment and submissive obedience.
First, the foundation of a good submission is an understanding between the femdom and the submissive of the expectations that have been set in their arrangement, including the roles and rules each will follow. This means creating a formal contract if possible, and open lines of communication and possibly check-in sessions during which both parties can make sure roles, expectations, and responsibilities are understood and met.
Second, the femdom should use playtime as a way to show her dominance and control. It is important to keep in mind that this playtime does not always have to involve chastity, though this can be a great way to maintain a submissive’s obedience. Other ways to control and hold power over the submissive include tasks and assignments, creating punishments or rewards for his failure or success in following his femdom’s orders, and providing praise while also establishing clear guidelines of what he can and cannot do.
Third, keeping a submissive sweaty and active helps to reinforce the femdom’s position in the relationship. This can be done through bondage or other physical punishments, such as making him perform various exercises, tasks, or other activities.
Fourth, it is important for the femdom to remain firm and in control. Having an emotional connection with a submissive should not mean that their roles are blurred, and a disparity between what is expected and allowed should be maintained at all times. Even when not in chastity, the femdom should demonstrate her power and dominance over her submissive by using a distinctly authoritative voice and body language.
Finally, the femdom should continue to provide her submissive with all the attention and care that he deserves. Showing kindness while also reinforcing your authority helps keep the submissive in line without demoralizing him, and it is a great way to ensure his obedience.
In conclusion, while there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, the steps outlined above can help any femdom mistress ensure that her submissive remains obedient even when not in chastity. Providing clear expectations, using playtime as a way to show dominance, keeping the submissive active, maintaining an authoritative presence, and providing tenderness and care in equal measure are all key elements in achieving a successful, mutually satisfying relationship.